Every time I squirmed, she would give me a pump or two, then
once it was already so big I could hardly stand it, she would
roll me over and sit on me so I could lick her pussy, and for
every minute I couldn't make her cum, 3 more pumps.

Boy did I learn proper oral techniques fast! But still take a
dive here and there if u know what I mean.

Let's face it, we are all a little quirky here. I embrace those
unique qualities in myself, and in the submissive men I am
attracted to.

Vanilla is a nice articulation. I have no interest in leather,
it doesn't enhance my best features:). The qualities of a
submissive man does:) He helps bring out my softer side.

I wrote more about the safer cock shock collar here:-

madamepontellier.com - the safe electric cock ring

On 22 May 2011 slave darryl Ducharme nuked_potatoes wrote:

>wonderful new relationship -snip- Mary

Mary and i had a falling out... i swear i did everything i
could... was like owning a boat, more and more and more money
poof down the drain and nothing coming from it - not her or i
going ahead, more like enabling... was nice though - lasted a
year

HEY! Ms Sabre - is it You from Texas?

nuked

you wrote:

>Mrs (and Mr) Christine

Cute! But I'm actually "Ms Christine" (not Mrs) - the clue is in
the domain name MsChristine.com - but I don't mind you calling
David "Mr Christine" - that has a certain amusing appeal :-)

you asked:

>Why has this site gone quiet?

As you posted your question via yahoogroups, which is where we
send the infrequent email digests - you may not be aware that
DOMestic is still alive and well and much more frequent here:-

http://www.mschristine.com/DOMestic_Blog/

Many prefer the shorter URL for quick and easy access straight
to the DOMestic latest posts including the reader replies here:-

http://u4ds.com/replies.shtml

Or you can follow DOMesticFemDom on Twitter here:-

http://twitter.com/DOMesticFemDom

The quickest and primary way to interact with DOMesticFemDom is
on the web by using the Newsfeed at:-

http://www.mschristine.com/DOMestic_Blog/index.xml

which gets you the individual messages immediately they are
posted.

As Email is so old technology nowadays, and incoming email is
blocked by so many systems, we have had to prioritise the
methods we use for sending out DOMestic to the modern ones that
people use most.

When we have too much work in our other life we still edit and
send DOMestic individual posts out using the methods above, but
the email digest has to wait until we have the time to put one
together.

So don't wait for us to send you the nowadays infrequent
DOMestic digests via Yahoogroups or Topica. Get your DOMestic
posts the very minute they are edited and posted by us.

You can get help using DOMestic NewsFeeds at:-

http://www.mschristine.com/newsfeed.shtml

There is no longer any need to ask us why you have not received
an email digest because it is easy for you to check yourself
when the last digest was sent out in the sidebar here:-.

http://u4ds.com/

sincerely,
Christine at MsChristine.com

You can support DOMestic at
http://u4ds.com/password

lowill wrote:

>i can be a slave

5 words is very short for a post to any forum. Would you care to
say a bit more than that lowill?

Regardless of how short the post is, raising the topic of "being
a slave" in this thread makes me wonder if perhaps I should put
a cat among the pigeons :-)

Perhaps "lowill" you are Angel's husband telling us and her in
this forum that you could be "a slave" for her?

Are you perhaps suggesting that currently you are a submissive
trying to get his needs met, and that what the ladies say they
want is a slave to obey them?

Are you telling Angel to do as Susan and Christine have
suggested and lay down the law and demand your obedience?

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

Download "Prickteasing" by David at:-
http://www.u4ds.com/manuals

tonight i get to please my 'misstiss' and her girlfriends. you
see i was trained to do as told and when that is the way, it is
whatever my master tell me to do because she's the boss and i am
her slave

so my friend do as you are told and love being a wife and one
day you may get to feel a man cock and that day you will know
how a wife feels

i must go, i must get dressed in my nightie and beg for my strap-
on cock. i just love sucking cock

As Christine suggests, I think you should make it plain to your
husband that you would like him to be a submissive sissy and you
will help him be one but only on the strict understanding that
you choose how he is submissive. Tell him that it is not
submissive if he is telling you how he is going to submit.

Tell him you want to do it your way for a month and he must
agree to doing it your way for the month. Tell him that if at
any time within the month he objects then you will immediately
stop helping him to be a submissive sissy and you will never
again indulge him in this respect.

Tell him that this condition is so important that you will only
have the one month trial if he signs to say that he fully
understands the condition.

Explain to him that at the end of the month you are quite happy
to discuss with him what happened during that month and you will
decide after that discussion whether you will continue to teach
him to be a submissive sissy in the way that you want which may
or may not include any element of what he thinks should happen.
Explain that if he does not then agree to continue on the basis
that you are the one who decides what will happen you will not
continue on this path.

Remind him that he is extraordinarily lucky that you are
prepared to work at this for both your sakes but that you need
to make it work for you otherwise there is no reason why you
should do it and you are certainly not taking on some new
behaviour that gives him all the benefits and you none.

Take control of the computer, get him to wear a chastity device,
make sure you control his orgasms and that they only happen in a
manner that pleases you, when you are present and directing
them.

Read and absorb everything that Madamplz and Christine have
written because they both have enormous experience.

I will keep my eyes and ears open for you and will contact you
if I have some info.

Bullhawk4
(Tim from Boston - 54 and sub to femdom also)

Longterm Chastity Devices - The Queen's Keep, A Review

My husband has had help with his depression and is much better
now.

I love tease and denial (my husband hates it) humiliation is
something we both enjoy, light bondage and 'forced fem'.

As for downloading pics, when I first moved in with my husband
he was using pics to wank to, up to 5 times a day. He has since
stopped wanking to pics but still gets incredibly turned on by
them and looks at them for hours at a time.

Hope this helps.

Angel

Kudos and congratulations are due to you for grasping the bull
by the horns. You can tell your husband from me that he should
be very grateful and he should work a lot harder at this.

Angeloftheknight wrote:-

>He wants me to be dominant but wants it done his
>way and if he doesn't like what I say it doesn't happen.

It seems the problem can be summed in saying he is not being the
"knight" in this relationship at all. A "knight" submits to his
lady and does not dictate the terms.

>I had never heard of bdsm or anything else till I met my
>husband. About 18 months ago my husband had a bout of
>depression and came to Me to talk.

He may need to do a lot more talking to determine precisely what
he does want. It may be that he needs to seek help getting over
his depression (and more) with a kink friendly therapist before
he is ready to play politely.

>He explained that although he has a dominant mind his true
>desire was to be a woman, a submissive sissy. He had secretly
>been crossdressing for years to get a sexual kick.

They are three distinctly separate issues. Becoming a woman is
one thing, and it may be a bit late in life for him to consider
truly changing his gender but it's not out of the question.

Being a submissive sissy is quite another thing, which takes a
lot of devotion and obedience - not just submitting to the
things he wants to do.

Crossdressing, just for the kick of it, is quite different
again. If he sees it as a reward then you can let him have
some of this as a treat in the bedroom. Or if he wants to be
humiliated with it you can "force" him to do it and clean house
when the kids are away with grandparents.

>I have had to learn what a sissy, submissive, dominant and
>everything else was to get this far.

And you've done very well. There are a lot more resources for
you on the DOMestic site, and there is much useful stuff by
myself and others on the site that you would do well to read.

Go to the front page of the blog at www.u4ds.com and then scan
down the menu on the right hand side to topics like....

Communication / Introducing Wife to FemDom
Communication / Slave not submissive
Communication / Wife understands
Learning / Training Hubby

One author on the blog you would do well to read more of is
Madamplz. To paraphrase a Madamplz dog training metaphor - it
seems that your doggy thinks he is training you. You need to
change his mind about that!

>Problem 1. My husband will only submit to things he thinks will
>benefit him. It's all about what he can get out of the sexual
>side of things.

Tell him that this is no good to you and that you intend to take
doggy's ball away until he begs for you to play, and will play
your games by your rules.

If you have a password then take a look at the thread "the
skills to become dominant" at:-

http://u4ds.com/2007/10/the_skills_to_become_dominant.shtml

Where Madamplz wrote:-

>"It may very well be that all he really needs are a few well
>placed corrections to lose that aggression. People who bully
>to get what they want respond very well to sharp correction without
>attitude. That can be developed as her awareness of what
>dominance is develops." -snip-

>"When I was actively training animals I noticed that you could
>take a dog with very dominant instincts and teach him to
>accept the trainer as pack leader. It didn't necessarily mean
>that dog wouldn't challenge the pack leader from time to time
>because that's also a part of pecking order survival. But as
>long as pack leader continued to act in the capacity of pack
>leader, those challenges wouldn't go very far. Usually a stern
>word, a leash correction, a refusal to engage, and sometimes
>physically putting the dog down to bare his belly would end
>the challenge.

You need now to develop a plan of action to implement as
described by Madamplz in that thread. So first tell us all on
the blog/list more about what it is that you want to actually
happen. How do you see the relationship working to suit you?

Once we know what it is that you actually want to do, and how
you would like to do it, we can probably tell you how to go
about getting what you want.

Angeloftheknight wrote:-

>Problem 2. I cannot get him to stop downloading sissy pics and
>pictures of sexy looking woman who he alleges he wants to look
>like.

Are you suggesting that you don't believe this and that you
think he's just downloading wanking material?

>Any ideas, advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.

I think that we first need to develop your plan to cure problem
one, and then ordering how he uses the computer in future will
just be a detail which becomes a lot easier.

sincerely, Christine

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

Jim's Story by randolphus
first part linked here

part thirty-seven - Tuesday

I was having a meeting with Carmen and two of the programmers
about our web site. I stood behind my desk and my guests sat. I
suppressed a yawn.

Carmen said: "Did you sleep well last night?"

I said: "Yes thank you, Miss Carmen."

Reply by email or post your message to DOMestic at:-
http://u4ds.com/

Mrs (and Mr) Christine,

Why has this site gone quiet?

(posted via yahoogroups)

Hello,

I've now completed and uploaded the February to December 2011
update to the members only web site.

Supporters of DOMestic can see the latest at

http://u4ds.com/2011/12/december_30th_2011.shtml

and access or search the last 15 years of DOMestic.

Jim's Story by randolphus
first part linked here

part thirty-six - Back to Work

Sarah and I ride together to the office. However, I drive and
Sarah rides in the back. We arrive early but many of the other
employees have seen this and it just adds to my humiliation.

I returned from cleaning the rest room to report to Carmen. I
saw her standing outside of my office and I went to her. She
said: "You have to report to my cubicle, go there now or you
will be late."

I saw they were taking my desk apart. I said: "What are they
doing to my office?"

Carmen said: "Go stand in my cubicle now!"

The Prisoner, by Will Cane
Chapter 84

The previous episode, Chapter 83, is at:-
http://u4ds.com/2011/05/the_prisoner_-_chapter_83.shtml

A tall slim female officer entered with a clipboard and called
out a number. The 40 year old female prisoner was still there
and with a look of surprise she sprang to her feet and snapped
to attention.

With a look of some boredom the staff lady informed the woman
that she was next for punishment and to follow her.

The woman gasped with shock. "But Madam...I have been punished
and was waiting to be released," she wailed in desperation.

In "never done this - some guidance appreciated" Sylvia D
wrote:-

>"I am starting to feel confused"

i too am new at being a submissive and just recently have been
collared by a dom.

he is constantly addressing to me as slut, i have known him
outside the dom relationship for 2-1/2 years and have never been
called this by him and although i want to learn this lifestyle
it makes me feel like i am nothing...

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

Re: C: electric with anticipation of being zapped

We haven't used the zapper for a little while but things will
change.

We are in the process of putting up a largish shed; some 10' by
8'. It is about 120 feet from the house and is not overlooked
(however the walk between the house and the shed has some
visibility to the neighbours). This is not in itself very
interesting until I asked my Wife how she would communicate
while She is busy doing her seed propagation and such.